很有安全感的一刻。。。
好帅的Oscar今天，维妮陪我带Oscar去冲凉。当她看到Oscar身上都是白白的肥皂雪，冒出了一句这样的话：“很喜欢洗车的这个阶段，因为一层厚厚的肥皂包着整辆车，很有安全感。”
下午，约了元元。她告诉我们刚刚和男友在MSN里吵架。她庆幸也感恩能用这种方式沟通，不然男友过后打电话来，很有可能就不能用好语气沟通了。
原来，女生是这样想的。。。
一直以来，我以为我缺乏，也想要的安全感，是拥有对方100%的爱。例如，不断用语言和行动来表示“他是我的”，不管是身躯，还是灵魂，全都是我的，那么我就觉得有安全感了。从来没想过，安全感不尽然是拥有，也可以是被拥有。原来安全感，是可以在他从身后拥抱时，缓缓且强烈的传过来。那一刻的被拥有，被需要；就像一层厚厚的保护，就像一层厚厚的爱，可以让人放心，也可以让人安心。就像那个遥远且甜蜜的画面，被你拥着，我就能安心入睡。。。
我也一直认为，面对面吵架，也是一种沟通，虽然这种沟通未必健康。但是，两个人对着电脑吵架，怎样都不如面对面好吧？！面对面，你才可以看到他的肢体动作，才可以在他讲到激动落泪时，一把抱着他，然后深深的吻下去。再不然，像华人常说的“床头打架床尾和”，吵到激烈处，就把他按在地上，来一场疯狂的性爱，把一切想说的话，注入在高频率的抽插中，直到最后攀上高峰，然后，两个人满足的、甜蜜地相拥入睡，什么吵架的事情，都忘记了。。。
我是这样想的吗？
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飞飞安地，你以为看戏咩~~~
现实生活中，不可能咯，怒火冲天了，哪来性致？至少我没有试过。
如果你以后真的做到了，记得传授几招~~
不管是怒火还是闷火，像你这种闷骚型的还是要记得代套套比较安全，安全感是自己给的，请勿依赖在那场疯狂的性爱上，迟早把自己烧死啊！
小小，
所以，我的文章题目是“懂的人”。。。就要找一个，可以沟通，有同样频率的人。。。
人鱼球球，
如果他是我的唯一，还要套套来干嘛？难道我是一个不负着的人吗？
我不是只为了性啦！！你以为我是Edison么？
Dear,
这样的解决方法行得通吗？
下次吵架的时候我要试试看。。。
哈哈哈哈。。。
ｄｅａｒ，
我也不懂，若你行得通，请告诉我。。。哈哈哈。
我也是比较喜欢面对面!!因为酱才可以看到对方的眼神!!还有...要看下是为了什么事情而吵,如果是你外遇了...就千万别把她压在床上,因为你只会得到她使出吃奶以来的一身力气把你踢得远远的!!* 可能会踢到小飞飞哦!!哈哈...^^
听起来，好像也有道理。。。但是若我有外遇，我也不会睬他了。。。为什么还要浪费时间吵架。。。
总觉得面对面吵架比一切来得有效。因为可以看见对方的body language嘛，再说，也可以看见他的眼孔是否是扩大或缩小，那不就可以看得出他到底有没有撒谎咯。压不压在床上，哈哈，各人而异吧，别忘了戴套就好，就算她是你的唯一也好，如果还没想要结婚的话，一切还没准备好的时候，还是小心为妙。
rachel，
会撒谎的另一半，我不要。有些东西，蠢一次就好了。。。
哈哈，看来，大家都不介意来一场疯狂的性，只要安全措施做得好，就可以了。。。。
你形容的畫面太理想化了!
Message for Yeow Huei
Dear Senior Yeow Huei,
Vincent Here , dunno you still remember me or not ?
i just visit your blog, wao, it is so amazing for me to have a
detail view of your life
your "Wen2 Fa3" is very nice
( forgot your are Chinese Ed. graduate )
hehe, i remember two questions that you ask me
one is during Supper night ,
Being movie director syok bo ?
i answer , Syok !
about this question, maybe suitable
for those who are become 2nd year " junior" <------ coz haven approve by super duper senior yet.
For my opinion , 2nd college is just a drama stage , got people
choose to become " ke leh fei" , Got people are selected to become main character ;
and the director , mostly is the 2nd year, 3rd year and final year
maybe just suitable to be an audience , watch the movie acted by them.
so wat ever movie they plan to play for us , just give the fully support to them.isn't it ?
the 2nd question you asked me during last year senior freshie night is
" why you still want to stay college for three years "
my answer , because i love 2nd college CC
however this year, i choose to move out liao
staying outside gave me many freedom and more available time
but i still miss the busy moments during in 2nd college.
BECAUSE I STILL LOVE 2ND CC!
I got go back to 2nd college within these few week
what i can say is the feeling is big difference .
all the activities is still going on , everything is still remain
but why everything is seen like strangeness.
For those senior who stay outside like me ,
do you have this feeling ?
This year supper night had just finish,
tell you something, i get most of the feedback
from my junior is " this year supper night is very sien, coz
yeow huei is not around "
hahaha, i think the " 988 effect " is already fixed in everyone
heart and is a " protocol " during supper night.
Haha,
Senior Freshie night is just a corner,
so i hope that you will attend on that night.
but please dun aim me liao
now i am final year liao, Become low profile liao (hahaha)
So how about your working day
hope you will " shun4 shun4 Li4 Li4 " all the times
have a nice day
May god bless you!
2ns College Power !!!
From
Vins Forever - Vincent Ng ( final year )
lock,
不会啦，我相信一定有某个心灵契合的人。。。
要不然，这一篇也不会叫“懂得人”
dear Vincent,
thanks for viewing my blog....
Haha, i also miss those fun and memorable day during uni life and 2nd college.
As for the supper night, i think the "988 effect" will cool down for next year lah...
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